Things I feel just need to be said.
You must be honest to yourself, before you can accept who you really are.
Until you can love and respect yourself, you cannot fully love or respect anyone else.
There is no sense in trying to be something you're not just to impress someone - you won't be happy in the long run.
So please, don't try to change who you are.
Love yourself.
&
Respect yourself.
You will live a much happier life.